(This ritual utilizes the imagery described in the descent of Inanna into the realm of death and back into the world of the living. Using some form of token, such as a scarf to represent each item given up helps to reinforce the symbolism. It was written for my own Croning. Each person should substitute what they find most valuable that they are giving up)
Priestess: In the ancient days, our ancestors knew that living was changing.
They gazed upon the heavens and saw the moon rise in the sky first new, then full,
then drawing down into the dark. They marked with great stone circles the path of
the sun, and crossed the untrammeled oceans guided by the circling stars. They honored
the Lord and Lady in the changing seasons of the Earth. As above, so below. They
honored also with rites of passage those among the kin who passed through the mileposts
of this life; rites to honor birthing, coming of age, marriage, and elderhood.
Honored were the elders, those who held the wisdom of the tribe. They were the
teachers, the healers, the diplomats, the shamans, the chieftains, the priests and
priestesses. It was they who cared for the dying and who helped the spirit find its
way into the light of the Goddess. It was they who showed in their living and their
dying that all life continued on, and that death was nothing to be feared, but only
a gateway into another life.
We gather tonight to mark the passage of one
of our own into their elder years.
First Guardian: Who comes upon
the first gate?
Crone:: I, Lark, a daughter of the Goddess
First
Guardian: You shall not pass without a price. What do you lay down here?
Crone:
Here I lay down those accomplishments and titles of this world. Soldier, healer,
daughter, wife, lover, friend. Names only. As this cloak I wear, they are but faces
of the whole. To the gods, it is the heart within and not the face without which
is the true measure of a woman or man. And to the gods freely do I offer my heart..
First Guardian: Pass you freely with my blessing, honored one!
Second
Guardian: Who comes upon the Second Gate?
Crone: I , Lark, a daughter
of the Goddess.
Second Guardian: You shall not pass without a price.
What do you lay down here?
Crone: Here I lay down my youth. No longer
for me the nubile form of the Maiden or the ripeness of the Mother. My hair grows
grey, my steps grow slow, and my face is creased with the lines of a thousand smiles,
a thousand tears. Yet I am still a form of the Goddess, how can I ever be anything
but beautiful?
Second Guardian: Pass you freely with my blessing, Honored
One
Third Guardian: Who comes upon the Third Gate?
Crone:
I, Lark, a daughter of the Goddess
Third Guardian: You shall not pass
without a price. What do you lay down here?
Crone: Here I lay down
my fertility. Passed are my years for the bringing forth of children. There will
be no son or daughter of my blood to remember me at the Samhain feast. Yet I will
stand as mother in spirit to the young of this clan, to teach, to guide them in the
sacred ways.
Third Guardian: Pass you freely with my blessing, Honored
One.
Fourth Guardian: Who comes upon the Fourth Gate?
Crone:
I, Lark, a daughter of the Goddess
Fourth Guardian: You shall not pass
without a price. What do you lay down here?
Crone: Here I lay down
the certainty of health. My bones ache of a winter night, my heart stumbles in its
pace atime, and my breath comes quick upon a hill. Yet within this aging frame still
lives a spirit that burns strong and bright.
Fourth Guardian: Pass
you freely with my blessing, Honored One.
Fifth Guardian: Who comes
upon the Fifth Gate?
Crone: I, Lark, a daughter of the Goddess.
Fifth
Guardian: You shall not pass without a price. What do you lay down here?
Crone:
Here I surrender my independence. I once was strong enough for every task. I saw
it a weakness to ask the aid of others. Now I, as the body fails, I know that for
false pride. As I grow in years, I see that we are a community. Like the spider's
web, the strength of the whole is more than any part. I place my trust and my future
in the sure and caring hands of my clan.
Fifth Guardian: Pass you freely
with my blessing, Honored One.
Sixth Guardian: Who comes upon the Sixth
Gate?
Crone: I, Lark, a daughter of the Goddess.
Sixth Guardian:
You shall not pass without a price. What do you lay down here?
Crone:
Here I lay down the sword and shield of the Warrior. Once I stood upon the field
of battle with the crash of armies in my ears. I and my comrades held fast the line
that brought an evil empire to its knees. Proud and strong I was, with certainty
in what was right. Now I know that right is seldom simple, and that the young pay
the price of their elder's mistakes. I will remember the human price of war and conflict
as I guide our clan in the future.
Sixth Guardian: Pass you freely
with my blessing, Honored One.
Seventh Guardian: Who comes upon the
Seventh Gate, the Siege Perilous.
Crone: I, Lark, a daughter of the
Goddess
Seventh Guardian: You shall not pass without a price. What
do you lay down here?
Crone: Here I lay down the promise of life itself.
I am older now than my Father, my cousin and my Mother's sister when they passed
into the Summerland. Friends of my childhood are gone into the final night. These
hands have comforted the sons of other Mothers as their bodies perished and their
souls flew free. We cannot know what waits for us beyond that final gate. Yet I know
that all things must die so that they may be reborn. As the Goddess waits for me
in perfect love, I go to her in perfect trust.
Seventh Guardian: Pass
freely with my blessing, Honored One.
Priest: The winds of time have
carried you to this place.
You have been tested in the fire and not found
wanting
You have been purified in the waters of the Lady's tears
You return at last to the Earth, the first and final Mother. And from the womb of
Earth are you reborn.
Priestess: Maiden no more. Mother no more. Crone
do I name you. Crown of the trinity, completion of the cycle of life. Wear the crown
of your years with grace and wisdom. Wear this circlet as the symbol of your new
estate. Let all honor the Crone.
Last Updated September 27, 1998